STAND UP FOR THE CHAMPIONS: “So What If We’re Older?” Nigerian Elders Light Up the Runway and Change the Story of Aging

“So What If We’re Older?” Nigerian Elders Light Up the Runway and Change the Story of Aging

In a world that often centres youth and sidelines older voices, a quietly revolutionary fashion event recently held in Abuja is still echoing in the hearts of those who witnessed it. Created to coincide with the Nigerian National Day of Older Persons, which is marked every year on 5 October in alignment with the International Day of Older Persons, “So What If We’re Older?” brought elders to the centre of the red carpet in a way that felt both bold and deeply tender.

The older persons only fashion show, conceived and organised by James Alabaster Agbontaen, Truman Tyoden and Leonel Kolade, was much more than a colourful afternoon of style. It was an intentional response to ageism, invisibility and the quiet exclusion that many older Nigerians experience. By inviting elders to step into the lights, cameras and applause, the organisers created a living statement that older persons are not an afterthought. They are a present, powerful part of the story.

“So What If We’re Older?” was designed as a celebration of ageless beauty and inner strength. The theme itself spoke directly to the harmful belief that aging must be associated with decline, sickness or withdrawal from public life. On this runway, the opposite unfolded. The red carpet was alive with elders who were confident, joyful and fully present in their own bodies and identities, walking not as background figures but as the main attraction.

“Our mission was to shatter stereotypes,” said co organiser James Alabaster. “We wanted to show that glamour, confidence and active participation in life do not have an expiry date. Our models proved that age is truly just a number and that dignity and joy are timeless.” That mission became visible in every step as a distinguished cast of models, all aged 60 and above, moved down the runway with a mix of poise, humour and quiet pride. Their presence was a reminder that elders carry memory, leadership and stability for families, communities and the nation.

Among the models were Dr. Julie Agbontaen, Amb. Deria, Anthonia Oguah and Pa Joseph Igeri. Each appearance felt like more than a fashion moment. It was a portrait of a life lived, a story still unfolding. Photographs from the event capture elders laughing, dancing and interacting with the audience, offering a powerful counter narrative to the idea that old age belongs in the shadows. Watching them, it was difficult to cling to the stereotype that aging is only about loss. What came through instead was colour, courage and connection.

The visual story of the event was strengthened by styling that honoured culture as well as personality. The models were dressed by Tobello Fashion and 16th Styling, two creative teams that approached the brief with sensitivity and imagination. Rich African prints, flowing caftans, sparkling fabrics, vibrant colours and beautifully wrapped headscarves created a runway that felt rooted in heritage and alive to the present. Outfits were carefully chosen to support comfort and dignity, allowing models to move at their own pace. Grey hair, walking sticks and gentle steps were not hidden. They were gracefully integrated into the look, framed as marks of wisdom rather than weakness.

Throughout the show, the atmosphere was warm and uplifting. The event was anchored by the charismatic presence of Emem Ekanem, who guided the audience through moments of laughter, reflection and heartfelt applause. Guests responded enthusiastically as models posed, waved and even danced their way down the red carpet. There were twirls, playful gestures and shared smiles that blurred the line between performer and spectator. Many in the room described the experience as healing and eye opening, especially in a culture where older persons are so often spoken of in terms of need rather than in terms of beauty, joy or visibility.

The success of “So What If We’re Older?” was supported by partners who believe that older Nigerians deserve to be seen and celebrated. Esse Essentialz, Raelyte Enterprise, SESELUNA and Lé fyccion each played a role in helping to create a safe, welcoming and uplifting environment for the elders who took part. Their involvement signalled that brands and businesses can choose to stand on the side of inclusion and dignity, not just trend and novelty.

Although the event was timed to honour the National Day of Older Persons, its impact has not been limited to a single date on the calendar. In the weeks that followed, conversations sparked by the show have continued among families, in professional circles and on social media, touching on everything from representation in media to how society listens to and cares for its elders. For the organisers, this is exactly the outcome they hoped for.

They envision “So What If We’re Older?” as the beginning of a larger movement rather than a one time show. Their hope is to see more inclusive representation of older persons in fashion, film, advertising and storytelling, as well as stronger efforts by institutions and communities to involve elders in decisions that affect them. They also speak passionately about the power of intergenerational connection, where younger and older people can share stories, mentorship and support in ways that benefit both.

“We want this to grow into something that lasts,” the organisers shared. “Older persons are living history and present strength. They deserve spaces where they are seen, heard and celebrated.”

In a time when conversations about diversity and inclusion are expanding across the world, “So What If We’re Older?” offers a simple and unforgettable message. Aging does not erase beauty or relevance. It deepens them. And every season of life deserves its moment in the light.

By:

Sandra Njoku-Samuel